Saturday, January 26, 2013

Dealing With Very Tangled Matted Hair Requires Faith



Jesus tell us in the Bible,(Matthew 19:26) , "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."

It requires faith to hold the tears back when everyone has told you to simply give up and cut your hair or your precious child’s hair.

It requires faith to stand tall when every salon or even your favorite hairstylist has rejected, judged you and looked down upon you because your hair is so tangled and matted.  And now you are depressed.

It requires faith to look in the mirror at your hair that is in clumps stuck to your scalp and say I will get my hair back!

It requires faith to not give up and keep searching for help.

Be aware that simply cutting tangled, knotted or matted hair can lead to depression.  We at Tangled Hair Techs take down tangled matted knotted hair through and with the tangible touch of GOD

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Detangling Hair May Not Be Glamorous..Its Healing



I had a sewin for 6 months.  I removed my sewin.  Since it had been a long time since my hair had been thoroughly clean (without the sew in) I decided to wash my hair.  After shampooing and conditioning my hair my hair was badly matted.   I did not know what to do to fix this problem.  Not only had I ever experience this, I also never really known anyone else to experience this. 
 I knew that if I went to a beautician they would have quickly cut all my hair.  I went on the internet to different sites.  I discover that I was not the first to have gone through this experience.  The remedies I found included saturating my hair with water and conditioner and slowly untangle the hair.  The first day I saturated my hair with water and conditioner and I tried untangling it.  I did this for the next three days.  I was successful at untangling some of the hair but as the days went on I discovered large bundles of hair all tangled up in knotts.  4 days had gone by with me spending hours with my hair and I had made no progress with the tangled hair. 

 I know it is just hair but if I could do anything to keep it I felt that it did not hurt to give it a shot. My hair was not just matted. Again it was matted and I believe the more I saturated it with water and conditioner the worse it got.  It was literally knotted  (huge bunch of hair all tangled up in a large hard hump of hair) in different sections of my head.  I mean really knotted (like rat knotts) the knotts were so big that I thought it would be impossible to repair.  My sister was convinced that it would have to be all cut.  I did not give up.  Through my research I saw a clip on YouTube with some girls giving a seminar on how to take down dreadlock and other matted hair with the TakeDown product.  I still did not think this would work for me because again my hair was now in big hard knotts.  I was at a little more ease knowing that someone has gone through this dilemma before me.  I finally sent a message to TakeDown and ask if it was worth the effort to save my hair or realistically was my hair the worse case.   TakeDown representatives responded and highlighted do not cut your hair. 

 They gave me hope although I rarely believe anything from the internet but it did not hurt to try to save my hair.  It already takes a long time for my hair to grow back so I just did not want to give up.  A tangled hair tech told me to buy the TakeDown product and give her a call and she would walk me through the process.  I did not know how she could walk me through the process with these big huge knots I had in my hair.  I ask if she knew anyone that could physically untangle this matted hair from my head.  I met up with this young lady with very little hope.  I really thought that I was being had or being given false pretense.  With patience (approximately 4.5 hours) she untangled the matted and knotted hair.  I could not believe it, but with the TakeDown product detangler products and more importantly with her expertise she untangled my hair. 

I would like to say thank you so much for your help!

Bridget from Chicago

 
Hey Ladies,

I ordered your product about 6 weeks ago.  Finally got the courage to
ask a friend to help me since so much was in the back of my hair.  We
used your product along with alcohol and it worked!  Yes, it worked!

My scalp was sore but the HUGE tangled matt is gone!  It took about 7
or 8 hours to do but Glory to God.  I thought I was going to have to
cut it but I didn't.

I am sooooo happy!
Bj

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Thank You For Supporting Our Campaign To Save Hair and Lives From Depression Through Detangling Hair

We appreciate all of your support and contributions.  Your  contributions will enable our team to expand in order to serve more people and save more hair.



 Help!

I left my microbraids in for too long and obviously used the wrong products to wash and condition.  
Now my hair is severely matted and tangled.  I am in Tarpon Springs, FL 34689 - about 45 mins northwest of Tampa, FL.  

Can you help with referral to a detangling salon and/or where to buy products?

 I do not want to have to cut my hair.  It's take so long to grow it to its just past my shoulder length.

 Thank you.


My Autistic daughter

Hello,

 My daughter has Autisim and she kicks, hits, screams and cries if you get near her head or hair. 

She is 4 and now her hair is one big knotted mess. The last time I tried to cut it and comb it out it took 1 hr 

and 30 minutes and she wouldnt come near me for 2 days. What do I do?

Thanks

Dear Tangled Hair Techs -
Do you have anyone who provides service in New Jersey or New York? Or is there a store in our area that sells your product (my zip is 07040). My 4 1/2 year old daughter got birds nest hair when we couldn't wash and condition her hair during Hurricane Sandy and it's at the point where I am fearing I might have to cut it all off. Hope you can help.

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Horrible Hairdressers Or Sad Salon Experiences, Is There Really A Difference?





Has your hairdresser or salon rejected you because your hair looks like this?

Earnestly or Anxiously ready to cut your hair because your hair looks like this?

Judged you because your hair is severely matted, tangled, knotted in a ball, matted in a clump, birds nest, or dreadlocked like this?


Well if they have- then be aware that simply cutting tangled, knotted or matted hair leads to depression.  Matted hair can also be  a manifestation of deep depression.



Even though an awful experience can trigger a depressive illness. When hair becomes seriously tangled or matted, most people become so scared.  They don’t want to cut their hair.

Some people go into denial by allowing their hair to stay this way.  They are so ashamed to go out in public or to even to their salon.  Inevitably their hair gets worse.

Although depression can be caused by a variety of factors, such as genes, personal experiences, environmental influences or psychological factors. Hair is a major attribute of every persons identity and when the hair becomes matted or severely tangled for long periods of time it affects the self esteem.  This is also compounded with the opinions and judgmental views of others.


Some hair extension, braid or dreadlock methods can last in the hair for 3 months, and up to 1 year. When these hairstyles are removed with homemade remedies it also causes serious damage, hair loss, and in some cases severely tangled or matted hair. 

Hair loss can cause depression as well, but very matted hair tends to lead to depression faster.  Its the shame,self blame and loss of self esteem causes most women to begin concealing knots or clumps of matted hair-this is what leads to deep depression and frustration. 

In society today self esteem seems to be generally lower than it should be and it is often accompanied by poor body image.  Research suggests that self-image and appearance are very much interchangeable.

While depression is highly treatable, medical research reveals that the sooner a person is treated the more effective that treatment will be. Studies have also shown that immediate treatment reduces the likelihood of recurrence.

Matted tangled hair must be detangled immediately, it can lead to changes in thinking or mood.  We are able to take down tangled matted knotted hair through and with the tangible touch of GOD.


13 year old with matted hair

The  back of my head has become matted due to putting in dreadlocks the wrong way (sectioning them horribly) It has been left uncombed for 3 months now and it is very curly. I live around Chicago and I wanted to know if you had any places around there. I have tried olive oil and lots of conditioner and none are good enough to get out the back of my head and when my mom took me to a salon all they told me was "put olive oil in or shave it off". Please respond - I really don't want to have to shave my head or chop a whole lot of it off.

in need of help.

after having a baby i didnt have time to take care of my butt length hair. i would just wash it and put it back up into a pony tail. in  june i noticed a matt in the back of my head near the base of my head. so since june ive been having several people work at it and it just seems to make the knots worse. i was wondering if there is anyone in pittsburgh pa that could help?!? i am prepared to shave my head it need be. i already bought myself a wig and everything i just came across your webiste today and figured id give this a try! 
thanks, sophi.


Matted hair after permanent colour in UK

Hi
Can you please help??? I am a salon manager in a training college and today  we had a client come in for a permanent root tint, she had a mixture of African Caribbean/ Asian hair, she had a baby 10 weeks ago and is breast feeding. She had a wella koleston permanent tint on her roots and it was shampooed with wella colour shampoo and conditioner.
When the student took her to the section it had matted into a huge box type birds nest clump!! We spent four hours using extra virgin olive oil trying to detangle it!! The client eventually became extremely head sore and wanted to go home we put it in a net and she is coming back on Monday to try again, she has long hair and the clump is in the middle she does not want it cut, can you please tell me what to do next? Very desperate for help ASAP
Regard


Friday, August 31, 2012

You are NOT your matted tangled knotted hair!...From Barcelona Spain to a Reservation in Brule South Dakota to an Australian Wedding Destination.



It may have happened to you or your child, but its NOT who you are.  Most people want quick fixes when they get into a predicament or a pill to fix a problem.  Most hairdressers just want to cut!

Healing takes time, patience and love.  In most cases hair can get severely matted tangled or knotted over time.  And sometimes it can happen overnight or after using your favorite shampoo or conditioner.  Regardless of the root of the hair mess…it can be solved.

There is no need for you to allow depression, despair, self-blame to overwhelm you; because it just makes matters worse.  As Jesus said “Nothing is Impossible With God”(Mark 10:27).  There are no amount of knots, tangles or matts that patience, prayer, love, skill and the Take Down Remover/Detangler cream can’t undo.  That is why our hair detangling services exist, to get you out of the bondage of blame, depression, sadness and free your hair.


Hello. I was browsing the internet and came across Tangled Hair Techs and it's pretty much a last resort for me. I have tried to get help from a couple local salons and they won't help just suggest ideas or to shave my head. I was depressed for awhile and going through a lot and just constantly pulled my hair back and with the humidity and other stuff that's caused damage to my hair it's turned into a horrible mess. I've tried remedies people have offered and it's just made things worse. I have very long and thick hair and haven't been able to get a job or haircut due to the way my hair is currently. I usually will try to brush and comb it out but I get frustrated because it seems to make it worse so I end up pulling it back cause I don't know what else to do. I really want to save my hair and get it restored. I feel horrible about myself and appearance because of how my hair looks and would appreciate any help. It makes it worse when people judge you about something when they don't know why or how it happened and the few places I've turned to for help have judged. I am located in Orlando, FL and was wondering if you know of any Tangled Hair Techs anywhere in Florida that could assist me? 
 

It's been way to long. My story is to long. Here's what Im facing; fusion keratin extensions 22-24 inches matted in some sort of bun on the top of my head. Is there an experienced  dreadlock remover in the seattle/tacoma area of Washington? I would be in tears if I had any left.


HELP!! DO YOU HAVE ANY TANGLE TECHS IN CHICAGO?!?!? I NEED HELP IMMEDIATELY, I HAD A SEWIN THAT I TOOK DOWN YESTERDAY MY HAIR WAS FINE UNTIL I WASHED IT, THEN IT IMMEDIATELY TANGLED AND MATTED!


I have a small matted section in my hair. I was wearing my hair in it's natural state (kinky curly), I got sick and couldn't fix my hair for almost 2 weeks. For a few weeks now I've been struggling trying to do it myself. It was bigger, but it's slowly working. I grow tired of doing it and would love to find a salon (in rock hill, sc) that can help me get the small matted section straight and keep my hair..I'm very frustrated and sad, I don't wanna cut my hair.

 Long story short I had dreads on one side of my head that I did not maintain nor bothered to brush the hair around it for multiple reasons that have turned Into terrible matts and knotts that I'm at a lost of what to do with. I've read so much and heard of you guys. I live in Los Angeles do you work out here? It's beginning to make me feel depressed and hopeless and I really don't want to shave my head. Please help






hey my name is nancy i havent brushed my hair over a year i have curly nappy hair please help me. all of my hair is stuck together ive been wearing wigs because i cannot show my hair in so bad doesnt even look like my hair is long its discusting please help
thank you
hello,
 i am 27 years old and live in kearney, ne. i have been living with depression for over a year now, and the past month or two have been very trying. i of course stopped taking care of myself. in the past, i have always been able to get all the tangles out of my hair. not this time, and im devastated. i have been trying to get out the matte by myself, but with no success. i have long brown hair and the problem is only getting worse. i just spent the last few hours trying to loosen parts of it and i could only cry at the frustration. i have not told my husband about my hair as i always keep it up to conceal the problem. i just want to feel good again, but right now i feel less than a woman. i am very sad that i was too sad to take care of myself. i will do anything for a second chance. i really am mad at myself right now, but you gave me some hope that it is possible. will you please help me. please write me back. ill be looking for a response. thank you for listening and i hope to hear from you soon.



Hi there,
 I have had a problem with matted hair before. Last time I cut the matts out. My hair has since grown long again and now it's happened again since having my son 6 months ago, and suffering from depression and problems with my relationship with my fiance. I have matts all over my hair, and I cannot get them out myself. I've also had trichotillomania all my life, and I have bald patches on the crown of my head, and short regrowth as well. The problem is, we are supposed to be getting married this October (date set, invitations are out, and people have booked their flights to our Australian destination wedding). I don't know what to do with my hair for the wedding. I am writing to ask if by any remote chance, there is anyone you know of Alberta, Canada, or anywhere in Western Canada for that matter, who could detangle my hair? I am used to dealing with bald patches, but these matts are too much!

Thank you for listening,

What can I use to untangle the matted hair live in Lower Brule SD on a reservation. 
Hello!


I desperately need your help! I wore my hair up in a bun-ponytail for abt 2 weeks straight. I did not wash my hair. Just rinsed it with water in the shower every day and put it back up into a bun. Over 3/4 of my hair is now in a massive and extremely hard knot. I have tried with a whole bottle of conditioner and pick for hours at a time. I have tried olive oil, Swarzkoff hair oil for detangling. It is not getting any better. All I have been able to accomplish is to get some strands like half out and all snarly still. Half of the strand is still stuck somewhere within the knot. 

I have to start going to interviews, etc!!! I am scared! I have been to a salon here in Barcelona and they said it was impossible. They said it all needed to be cut! NOW that is what is impossible...like I said- that is all my hair!!!! 

My hair length is to my breast line. So it is kind of long. 
 I want to order your Take Down Remover. But I saw in one of the comments that you may be able to find a salon here in BCN where they specialize in this kind of catastrophe and use your products. PLEASE help me! I am feeling depressed and desperate! 


I can not do it on my own..... I need help....
I have 5 feet of what used to be beautiful blonde curly hair.
For some reason or another i have let it go to crap.
I just want some sort of hair do
Please help me...
Thanks






Hi,
I have severely matted hair due to braid take out, and I was just wondering if you all could help me find an alternative to cutting my hair. This is really stressing me out and I know you all are busy but I'd really appreciate it if you could get back to me.
Thanks,

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Colorado Springs Hair Mess…. Salons & Hairdressers Don’t Really Want To Detangle Hair


It’s a shame and disgrace for us as hairdressers to hear how many of the women who contact us to detangle their severely matted tangled hair, go to their favorite salons or other hairstylists for assistance and the first response or only response they get is  Have You Considered A NEW HAIR CUT!!

We are working hard to train and hire more people who will want to save your hair. This is the website link to buy the super detangler product we use-http://www.freewebstore.org/How-To-Detangle-Hair-Videos/Hair_Products/cat1080367_1018887.aspx

Hi, I live in Colorado Springs and my hair has become matted in the back of my head.  I wear a head scarf most of the time to cover it up but I can't go around like this all the time.

I had it happen once before, and a salon was able to comb it out, but the whole time the woman was demeaning and nasty to me, kept demanding, "What did you do to make it like this?"  and treated me like I was scum.  Very judgmental. 

I was determined not to let it happen again but it did.  I think it's from keeping it in a ponytail, plus the dry air, sleeping on cotton pillowcases causing static, etc.  I haven't had this happen this bad until I moved out here from a more humid part of the country.

Anyway, it's matted again in the back and I can't get it out by myself, period.  I don't have any family or close friends here who can help me.  I got up the courage to go to another salon where there were a half dozen ladies sitting around with nothing to do in the afternoon, but when they saw me they said "Oh we won't do that, we'll just shave your head."  And then they laughed at me when I put my scarf back on and left.  

I wish these beauty schools would teach their students not to be such judgmental witches.

Do you know of anyone in the Colorado Springs area who can help me get this out?  I would like to try to find a different job, in an office (I work in a factory now) where I can't have hair like this.  I think I was a little depressed when I got the hair tangles and now it's worse, I feel like I'm in hiding.  When I got the hair untangled before, I felt so free. I want to feel like that again. 

I put an ad on Craigslist asking for help but no one has responded.  Could you help me?

Thanks,
MMM
Dear Sir/Madam

i found your email address and phone number on internet (youtube). I would like to ask you , if you could help me.
I found myself in very difficult situation. My baby boy was born before Christmas, he has a several health problems and was diagnosed to have genetic condition. A two weeks ago, he undergo heart surgery at Great Ormond Street Hospital. He spent a most of his life in the hospital. And I was by his side all the time. I suffered with stress and I stopped looking after myself as I haven't got time and thoughts for this.
I was so worried about my little one as he had heart failure and was rushed to the hospital.
I have long hair (nearly till waist), and now my hair are one big mess, one big tangle. I went to see hairdresser, but she said that it looks like they would have to cut my hair short. I was looking through internet, but youtube videos i saw, nobody had so horrible hair as i have now. Then I saw yours one and it was more like my hair.

Please please, i don't know what  to do. Please, could you help me? I live near Edgware Great London. I had never have a short hair. Please help me.
Thank you very much.
Kind regards.
SB
 I have a small matted section in my hair. I was wearing my hair in it's natural state (kinky curly), I got sick and couldn't fix my hair for almost 2 weeks. For a few weeks now I've been struggling trying to do it myself. It was bigger, but it's slowly working. I grow tired of doing it and would love to find a salon (in rock hill, sc) that can help me get the small matted section straight and keep my hair..I'm very frustrated and sad, I don't wanna cut my hair.


HELP!! DO YOU HAVE ANY TANGLE TECHS IN CHICAGO?!?!? I NEED HELP IMMEDIATELY, I HAD A SEWIN THAT I TOOK DOWN YESTERDAY MY HAIR WAS FINE UNTIL I WASHED IT, THEN IT IMMEDIATELY TANGLED AND MATTED!

I am just wondering if you have any detangling techs in or near Omaha, Ne? My daughter's hair has become one big dread lock. Help!!!!!

Long story short I had dreads on one side of my head that I did not maintain nor bothered to brush the hair around it for multiple reasons that have turned Into terrible matts and knotts that I'm at a lost of what to do with. I've read so much and heard of you guys. I live in Los Angeles do you work out here? It's beginning to make me feel depressed and hopeless and I really don't want to shave my head. Please help!!!!!

Hi,
I have severely matted hair due to braid take out, and I was just wondering if you all could help me find an alternative to cutting my hair. This is really stressing me out and I know you all are busy but I'd really appreciate it if you could get back to me.
Thanks,
AW

hey i haven't brushed my hair over a year i have curly nappy hair please help me. all of my hair is stuck together ive been wearing wigs because i cannot show my hair in so bad doesn't even look like my hair is long its disgusting please help
thank you
Nancy

I can not do it on my own..... I need help....
I have 5 feet of what used to be beautiful blonde curly hair.
For some reason or another i have let it go to crap.
I just want some sort of hair do
Please help me...
Thanks
LC



Monday, April 2, 2012

Canada Calling........Depressed.....Can We Detangle? We Work To Heal Your Hair & Heart

Hi, im 20 years old and i live in canada. I thought i'd try emailing you in case you check this more often..i have been desperately calling your phone numbers for days with no answer :( at first i got an answering machine but now i dont so i dont know.. I dont know what else to do now. 

All my hair is basicly all matted into one big mass in the back of my head and its been that way for a little over 2 months now..i live with my boyfriend and i am so depressed and feel so bad about myself.i am crying everyday now i cant even look in the mirror and i dont go anywhere except when i have to like to buy groceries but i wear a hooded sweatshirt even when its sunny and hot out..my boyfriend tries to make me feel better and acts like hes not bothered by it.he says maybe i should get a haircut and thatll help..but its past that point and honestly i dont know how it even got this way..i think im losing my hair and the texture has changed..its such a mess and i just feel hopeless.

My scalp hurts and everyday i just feel like chopping it all off but i cant..if getting my hair cut into like a bob would help believe me i would..but its matted so close to my scalp id have to shave my head or get a boys haircut and i dont want to :( i feel like im losing my feminity and i just want to feel pretty.i cant even look in the mirror without feeling overwhelmed and like im gonna have a panic attack.

 Anyways i am messaging you from a cell phone since i dont own a computer but i do have an email and please please email me. It would mean so much to me because i have noone else to turn to and im so depressed and going through such a hard time i did leave a voicemail asking if you were located in canada but if you arent i have considered taking a bus to somewhere in the us..but i just need some help and advice..please help me. I will try to attach some photos.

 Please respond as soon as you can i not only feel sad and depressed but my hair is causing me pain and discomfort :( i cant cut all of it off though ..i already feel embarressed and self concious around my boyfriend cause im a mess..i dont want him to see me with no hair though looking like a boy..i feel so ugly.i cant handle this on my own trust me i tried..picking single hairs out and trying to pick my hair apart and comb it but its brittle and i dont know where to start..it has even made me think about just giving up on life..and im pushing my boyfriend away.

We arent intimate anymore. I dont let him touch me.he tries to play with my hair n he cant..i break down..i know this sounds shallow i wouldnt kill myself but i dont want to get out of bed and live anymore